1. Bow Wow Is Being Stupid Again, Says He Created Erica Mena...
Shad Moss AKA Little Bow Wow, the baby faced rapper who annoys us so much when he pretends to be a grown up is being stupid again. Sure, he is doing some grown up things like getting married to former Love & Hip Hop reality star Erica Mena but his attitude about the union is still dumb and immature. In a recent social media post he brags about being Erica Mena’s creator! He actually said: Look what I created! He then goes on to write: Look at her from a year ago to now. She dress diff. Hair diff. Swag diff. That’s me! As a man its our job to put our women on and up so high on pedal stool they become unreachable boy! That’s what I do! I seen sumn in her NO ONE saw! Now yall JUST SEEING IT! How interesting. This little midget looks like he still drinks from a sippy cup and all of a sudden he is creating a woman. Lil Puppy Chow thinks he’s GOD! To be fair, I understand where he is coming from. It is always a great thing when a man invests his energy into grooming a woman and helping her become her best self. If she needs this type of guidance and it becomes available I think she should take it. BUT- For him to publicly brag about it is a bit macho of him though, as though she is his...
My First Big “O”
This one time at band camp…LOL Just playin. No but for real. I’ll never forget the first time I had an orgasm, once I knew what an orgasm was. It was my senior year of highschool and I had just lost my virginity months before. My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks later and I was hurt. There was this dude who used to follow me around school begging me to give him a chance. I didn’t think he was cute at all but he had a nice body. I didn’t care. I would brush him off and give him excuses and he would try to persuade me with food and offers to blow my mind sexually. I didn’t know what he was talking about. The sexual experience that I had with my first was UGH. After hearing it enough times one day he approached me and I said, “Ok. Let’s go to your house.” He was shocked but we hopped on the bus and went back to his house. He led me to his room and I sat down on the bed. He stood there looking at me for a long time. I knew then that I wasn’t a conquest, this dude really liked me. He removed...I Can Be A Perfect Bitch
Sometimes, I get a thrill out of being a bitch to men. It’s only when I don’t really like the guy and guess what- they LOVE IT! I know why men love bitches. I made a video about it. The truth is some men need NEED a bitch in their life, to train them. I wrote about that in my latest eBook How To Train Your Man. In the past week, I’ve really been a bitch and it just keeps men wanting more. I’ll share a few of my bitchy moments. If there are any fellas reading, let me know if it turns you on. Scene 1 I was talking to this young dude I met at the gas station. He was supercute but he had a bad attitude. I think it was only because he was immature. Anyway, when we met he said he liked me because I had an “attitude” which basically means he wants to argue and fight and be cursed out on a regular basis. This is NOT who I am generally. If I like a man, I like to serve him and treat him like a KING. Men who love bitches HATE good treatment and they won’t accept it or respect it, which is...
I Was That Pathetic Chick
I used to be PATHETIC! Ugh! So serious! If you had known me you wouldn’t have respected me. The root of my pathetic-ness came from my secret passive personality. I appear to be very dominant. I am. I have to be because I trust no one to lead me. But secretly I want to meet someone that I trust so that I can be that caregiver and servant that I really want to be. I am a servant at heart. I love to take care of people and give them what they want and need. For years I was a waitress and I loved it for the most part. I love catering to people, but I realize most people don’t respect that. All I want to do is make you feel good about who you are. I’ll do this by reminding you of your best traits and praising you whenever I can. It’s not about kissing up, it’s about wanting you to recognize your greatness. Most people like to be criticized. They think it helps them to be better. Not me! Criticism in an intentionally mean way only lets me know that you hate yourself and you want me to hate myself too. Once I graduated high school, I...
I Say NO To Love
It’s very rare that I actually try to make anyone stay in my life. These days I am so adept at pushing people away its almost like an instinct. I do this for 4 reasons: 1) I don’t think anyone will ever understand me or appreciate me. 2) I am not interested in repeating the disgusting dating habits of my friends. 3) I feel like I can and will live my life happily as a single woman without all the stress I saw my friends go through as they clung to men hoping for love. 4) I never want to experience pain like the pain I experienced with my ex. I don’t expect anything different and have not experienced anything different. When I read this book by Evan Marc Katz, it made me open my eyes a bit more. I mean, men that I wanted to love me NEVER loved me and after reading this I understood why. It still didn’t make me want to engage in a relationship but if you still have hope for love and you’re not understanding why you haven’t gotten it, I suggest you give Why He Disappeared! a quick...
I Know What Love Is
OMG! I live by the train tracks and that noise still annoys me. I am so excited about moving away from here and from train tracks. I’ll never have to live in a cheap place by the tracks again! Today I was sitting here analyzing life as usual. I came into a reflective place of appreciation for all of my relationships. None of them were failures, they just taught me more about myself and now I am grateful for them, for every man and woman who rejected me or hurt me. I’m okay with it all. You know, I HAVE been loved before. I always say, “I’ve never been loved” but someone has loved me once. His name was Lem. I met him when I was in the 10th or 11th grade during a break from my first love. I saw him in the hallway and thought he was kinda cute so I walked by him and touched his arm and smiled before walking away. I know- PLAYA MOVE! I am such a great flirt! The next day he found me and came to talk to me. I listened and then the attraction turned off. Ehh. I don’t like him anymore. He still pursued me. He would invite me...
“I hear you’re getting your ass whooped everyday…”...
Another dating story from high school just crossed my mind. I met this young man one morning before school started. I had seen him before, plenty of times. I would notice him staring at me while I was riding the #17 bus to school. He never said anything, he just watched as my friends and I laughed and talked and hung out with our other friends. One morning, I saw him staring at me rather intensely so when the bus arrived at school I hopped off quickly and picked up my step. He quickened his pace as well so I turned the corner and took a different route to my locker hoping to shake him. It didn’t work. Before I reached my locker I felt a tap on my shoulder. I turned around and he said something like, “Do you mind if I talk to you for a minute?” He introduced himself and told me that he had seen me around and liked what he saw. I wasn’t impressed. “What is it that you DO, around here?” I asked him. “I’m on the football team.” Ugh. I have never been attracted to athletes. They’re too aggressive. “Is it okay for me to give you my number and maybe you...It’s Not A Sin To Be Single
13 Years Single and No Prospects, Te-Erika Patterson examines her love life out loud. 
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