Bow Wow Is Being Stupid Again, Says He Created Erica Mena

1. Bow Wow Is Being Stupid Again, Says He Created Erica Mena...

Shad Moss AKA Little Bow Wow, the baby faced rapper who annoys us so much when he pretends to be a grown up is being stupid again. Sure, he is doing some grown up things like getting married to former Love & Hip Hop reality star Erica Mena but his attitude about the union is still dumb and immature. In a recent social media post he brags about being Erica Mena’s creator! He actually said: Look what I created! He then goes on to write: Look at her from a year ago to now. She dress diff. Hair diff. Swag diff. That’s me! As a man its our job to put our women on and up so high on pedal stool they become unreachable boy! That’s what I do! I seen sumn in her NO ONE saw! Now yall JUST SEEING IT! How interesting.  This little midget looks like he still drinks from a sippy cup and all of a sudden he is creating a woman. Lil Puppy Chow thinks he’s GOD! To be fair, I understand where he is coming from. It is always a great thing when a man invests his energy into grooming a woman and helping her become her best self. If she needs this type of guidance and it becomes available I think she should take it.   BUT- For him to publicly brag about it is a bit macho of him though, as though she is his...
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ADVICE: He Says I Don’t “WOW” Him Anymore

ADVICE: He Says I Don’t “WOW” Him Anymore...

READER QUESTION My name is Nathan, and I have been involved in a relationship with another man for 8 months. When our relationship first started out, the love and connection was so strong, but after a few incidents, its grown bitter and there isn’t really any trust. Recently he told me that I don’t “wow” him, and I found that he had been talking to someone else. He still tells me that he love me and wants to be with me for the rest of his life, but if he did, why would this be happening? I don’t know what to do, and he is very hard to get to open up about a situation such as this. We still sleep in the same bed and still have a healthy sexual relationship. He is constantly on his phone, which makes me feel uncomfortable because of the fact I have caught him talking to someone else and when he is on his phone I become extremely over bearing, which is something he told I need to work on. How do I work on that and how do I get my relationship back to being filled with love, passion, chemistry, and trust? I love him more than anything, and it’s worth...
I Have Been Single For 13 Years

I Have Been Single For 13 Years

I haven’t tried to be single for 13 years, it just happened like that because I was so angry and hurt over my Baby Daddy but honestly, also because I think I am like a narcissist or something because I don’t ever meet anyone I think is good enough for me. So I play with guys knowing I would be so sad if they ever loved me and honestly, when I’m with men I always feel like I’m settling and I deserve better. When I have dated women in the past I haven’t felt like that so I am not sure what is going on. I still haven’t met a woman that I felt was good enough for me either. Will I be sad if I never hook up with anyone? HELL NO! I feel so relieved when I do activities alone. I feel so happy when I can go out by myself, I don’t meet anyone or have to entertain any strangers. I feel so great when I enjoy my adventures without anyone’s sabotaging my happiness. That’s what it feels like when I socialize- SABOTAGE! I hate it and the concept of having someone by my side to ruin my good time on a consistent basis sounds sucky...
ADVICE: Women Don’t  Agree With My Beliefs

ADVICE: Women Don’t Agree With My Beliefs...

Dear Te-Erika, I keep meeting women who don’t agree with my beliefs. In my mind one of the criteria for dating women is how would they react to me not being a Christian. Some years back, I got reacquainted with an ex from back in Jersey. Her religious constitution was like mine; neither of us could care less. Well, when we picked up where we left off, it was a good convo and she shared that she attends church which was no big deal. I had no clue really regarding Pentecostal followers. I decided to explain my beliefs as diplomatically as possible, having left that off the table from my end. She went fire and brimstone ballistic and hit me with the 2×4 of the Lord! LOL She would not take any of my calls after that. I have spoken to her since then but you best believe I closed that proverbial friendship door. My REPLY: You are not under any obligation to share or convince anyone to agree with your beliefs. Your beliefs are your own choices. Maybe you think you need someone to agree with you but you shouldn’t. You don’t need validation for your choices to be correct. You are your own authority. Your beliefs are...
PTSD Hurts My Chances At Love

PTSD Hurts My Chances At Love

I have been through some trying times with men. I was raised by a man who would consistently belittle me and then my first real relationship out of highschool was with a mirror image of the man who raised me. So it took me some time to really understand that their words do not define me. I understand that now, but my body doesn’t. During one bout with counseling the counselor asked me, “Does it feel like an impulse to run away?” I gasped. “Yes! I can’t control it! I HAVE to leave, my body tells me to.” “I got it!” she said. “It’s PTSD. Let me give you some literature.” PTSD is Post traumatic stress disorder and it happens when you experience an extremely traumatic situation and you don’t heal properly. Somewhere along my life journey I developed it and to this day I can NOT develop a long term relationship with a man. My body won’t let me. Let me give you an example. I met a man a couple of years ago and we were cool as friends. After about a month of talking on the phone and hanging out, something just didn’t feel right. My brain would send me a WARNING saying: Get away from...
ADVICE: How To Get Over Him

ADVICE: How To Get Over Him

  Hey girl I just wanted to say I loved the video you did on ” Your Fanatasy: Figuring out if he just wants sex” love it! Anyway I recently broke up with my bf! But I’m excited for the future, because i have so much planned ( Moving to a different town, creating a new life, etc ) I was just wondering if you had any tips on how to get over him ( i already know dont go to places you’ve been with him, stay out of places you know he’ll be at, dont stalk him, text him, call him etc. ) Right now, im in a place in my life where i dont need a boyfriend and him breaking up with me, benefits me ( I know that sounds bad, but its the truth!) please and thank you! -M J MY REPLY: You’ll get over him when you realize he wasn’t your last chance at love. Also, try downloading my ebook- GET OVER HIM! It will give you a dose of reality that might shake your blues loose. Love,...
The Best Advice EVER

The Best Advice EVER

By Rori Raye Here are some things we may think of as “friendly,” that are actually CHASING a man: 1. Calling him up. This includes calling him because you heard or read about something interesting, or because you knew there was a great band playing somewhere, or someone told you about some great event that you want to invite him to or – anything at all. This includes calling him to ask him why he hasn’t called you. This includes calling him to tell him you’re upset that you haven’t heard from him. This includes calling him to give him directions to your home or answering any question he hasn’t specifically asked, or giving him any information he hasn’t specifically asked for, or offering anything. This does NOT include: You’re having a problem or an emergency, and you can’t reach a friend or a relative, and you’ve been dating him long enough that he’s started “future-talking” about things he’d like to do with you and places he’d like to go with you, and you need his help. Don’t be afraid of appearing weak. If you need something — something of course that has nothing to do with the relationship — don’t be afraid to ask. This is what being...

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